5 Subtle Signs Your Body is Holding Stress (and How to Gently Release It)

Nancy Williams-Foley • 9 May 2025

When we think of stress, we often picture big feelings -  panic, overwhelm, racing thoughts. But stress doesn’t always shout.

Sometimes, it whispers through your body in subtle ways that are easy to miss until they build up.


If you’ve been feeling “off” lately but can’t quite put your finger on why, your body might be quietly holding onto stress. Let’s look at some of the lesser-known signs and, more importantly, how you can start to gently release them.


1. Persistent Muscle Tension

Do you notice tight shoulders, a clenched jaw, or a stiff neck — even when you think you’re relaxed? This kind of muscle tension is one of the body’s default stress responses. Over time, it can become so habitual that you forget what it feels like to fully relax.


Try this:

Take 30 seconds right now to do a body scan. Starting at your forehead and moving down to your shoulders and chest, notice where you’re holding tension — and see if you can soften, even a little.


Acupuncture and EFT tapping can also help signal to your body that it’s safe to let go.


2. Digestive Upset

Bloating, stomach discomfort, or irregular digestion can often be linked to stress. That’s because your gut and nervous system are deeply connected. When stress is ongoing, digestion takes a back seat as your body stays in “survival mode.”


Try this:

Before meals, pause and take a few slow breaths to calm your system. Supporting your nervous system through therapies like acupuncture or mindful breathing can help your digestion get back on track.


3. Trouble Sleeping (Even When You’re Exhausted)

One of the most frustrating signs of stored stress is feeling tired but wired — you’re exhausted, but your body won’t fully settle into rest. This is often a sign that your nervous system is still stuck in high alert, even when your mind is ready to switch off.


Try this:

Gentle tapping or simple breathwork before bed can help downshift your body into a calmer state. Evening acupuncture sessions have also been shown to support better sleep patterns over time.


4. Feeling Numb or Disconnected

Stress doesn’t always show up as anxiety. Sometimes it feels like emotional flatness, lack of motivation, or feeling disconnected from yourself. This is your body’s way of protecting you — by numbing out sensations that feel too much to handle.


Try this:

Small, grounding practices like walking barefoot on grass, placing your hand on your chest, or gently tapping can help you reconnect with your body in safe, manageable ways.


5. Frequent Headaches or Brain Fog

Do you struggle with foggy thinking, headaches, or difficulty concentrating? These can be signs that stress is impacting your circulation and nervous system function, making it harder for your body (and brain) to operate smoothly.


Try this:

Hydrate, take screen breaks, and consider therapies that calm the nervous system and improve energy flow — like acupuncture or EFT.


Stress Isn’t Always Loud — But Your Body Remembers

If you recognise yourself in these signs, know that you’re not broken — your body is doing its best to cope. But you don’t have to stay stuck in survival mode.


By supporting your nervous system gently and consistently, you can start to release stored stress and feel more like yourself again.


Ready to explore how therapies like acupuncture or EFT can help? I’d love to support you. Contact me here.

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