Why Being “Too Sensitive” Is Actually a Strength

Nancy Williams-Foley • 22 May 2025

Have you ever been told you’re “too sensitive”?

Maybe you’ve been made to feel like you’re overreacting, taking things too personally, or feeling too deeply. It can be a painful label to carry - one that leaves you questioning yourself or trying to toughen up just to fit in.

 

But what if your sensitivity wasn’t a flaw at all?

 

Let’s explore what it really means to be sensitive, how it affects your emotional and physical health and why embracing this part of yourself could be one of the most healing things you ever do.

 

What Does It Mean to Be “Sensitive”?

Sensitivity isn’t just about getting emotional. It’s about how deeply you process the world around you.

 

You might:

  • Pick up on subtle shifts in someone’s tone or energy
  • Feel deeply moved by music, art, or nature
  • Struggle in loud or chaotic environments
  • Need time alone to recharge
  • Feel easily overwhelmed when there’s too much happening at once

 

Psychologist Elaine Aron coined the term Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) to describe people with a more finely tuned nervous system. It’s estimated that around 20% of the population are HSPs, and it’s completely normal.


The Link Between Sensitivity and the Nervous System

If you’re a sensitive person, your nervous system is likely more reactive and responsive. This means you may feel the effects of stress more quickly and it can take longer to recover from emotional or sensory overload.

 

You might:

  • Feel tension in your body when someone around you is upset
  • Experience digestive issues, headaches, or fatigue during emotional periods
  • Notice your body reacting to conflict, even if it’s not directed at you

 

At the clinic, I often see sensitivity showing up as:

  • Anxiety or low mood
  • Digestive discomfort (often stress-related)
  • Sleep disturbances
  • Hormonal fluctuations
  • Emotional burnout

 

Rather than treating these symptoms as isolated issues, I look at the whole person and how their environment, emotional life and body are all interconnected.


Why Sensitivity Is a Strength

Here’s the beautiful truth: the qualities that make you sensitive also make you powerful.


1. You’re deeply empathetic

You can sense what others need, often before they say a word. This makes you a compassionate friend, parent, partner or therapist.


2. You notice details others miss

Whether it’s beauty in nature or shifts in emotion, your awareness brings richness to your life and relationships.


3. You’re intuitive

Many sensitive people have a strong gut instinct. When you learn to trust it, it becomes a valuable guide in decision-making.


4. You’re conscientious

You care deeply and that care shows in how you show up, whether at work, at home, or in your community.


5. You have emotional depth

Your capacity to feel also gives you the ability to connect deeply with others, process life meaningfully, and express yourself with authenticity.

 

How to Support a Sensitive System

When you begin to honour your sensitivity instead of pushing against it, healing starts to happen. Here are a few ways I support sensitive clients in the clinic:


1. Acupuncture

Acupuncture helps regulate the nervous system, reduce stress and bring the body back into balance. Many sensitive clients find sessions grounding, calming and restorative, especially if they often feel overstimulated.


2. Counselling or EFT

Talking therapies can help you explore how your sensitivity has shaped your life, and gently release patterns of self-doubt, people-pleasing or overwhelm. EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) is particularly effective for clearing emotional triggers in a safe, contained way.


3. Reflexology

This deeply relaxing therapy supports the nervous system through gentle pressure on reflex points in the feet. It can be particularly soothing for those who feel constantly ‘on edge’ or overstimulated.


4. Create a softer pace

Sensitivity often thrives when life isn’t moving at 100mph. Create buffer time between tasks, prioritise quiet moments, and design your life around how you feel, not just what needs to get done.


Reframing Sensitivity as a Superpower

If you’ve been made to feel like you’re “too much” — too emotional, too intense, too affected, this is your reminder that your sensitivity is not a weakness.

 

It’s a strength that, when cared for, can guide you into deeper self-awareness, richer relationships and more meaningful living.

 

At George Street Wellness Clinic in Edinburgh, I provide therapies that support sensitive bodies and minds in a way that feels gentle, empowering, and restorative.

 

If you would like to find out more about the therapies I offer please click here.

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